When we talks about liars, semua
orang pun tak suka, betul tak?
haa, boleh dikatakan semua la, maklum la siapa la yang suka
ditipu dan dipermainkan.
tapi, korang sendiri pun tahu tentang ni kan, almost all of
people who hate these liars are also a liar.
percaya tak? betul ni, kita ni benci sang penipu, tp kita pun
menipu jugak kan, biasa la tu, tipu la klau korang ta pernah tell a lie even as
small as dust sekali pun, mesti ada kan.
apple pun, tp kadang2 kita menipu untuk menjaga hati dan
perasaan orang tapi hati dan perasaan kita tak terjaga, kan3? selalunya
penipuan macam ni berlaku dalam perhubungan antara kekasih, suami isteri dan
juga persahabatan
but
the truth is,
We Are All Liars
Lying is a part of our everyday lives,we are likely to lie several times a day, or in one out of every four conversations that lasts more than 10 minutes.
Lying is a part of our everyday lives,we are likely to lie several times a day, or in one out of every four conversations that lasts more than 10 minutes.
some tells a Little Lies
Most of our lies are the little white
lies we tell others, to make ourselves look better, or to spare others'
feelings.
and some tells
a Big Lies
A serious lies are far less frequent.
The most common are about affairs and money. "The most
serious lies we tell are more likely to be told to the people we care about the
most, people that u love or maybe you not love them anymore. Because the serious lies are told to cover up
something we're ashamed of, often.
When we didn't meet our own standards, our own expectations. And importantly,
we didn't live up to the image that these people have of us."
Why do we
lie?
We lie because it works. And it works
because other people want to hear lies about themselves -- that they're looking
good or that we agree with them. In some cases, we lie because it gives us an
advantage over others -- we lie to convince people of what we want them to
believe. There are a lot of reasons, but the bottom line is that lying is a social
tactic that we use to get what we want.
we'll take a look at the top 5 lies men tell women.
Lie
1 - "I'll call you tomorrow" - Men say this so
often, and get away with it, because women want to believe it. Bj's advice is
to not wait by the phone for the call and go live your life. If the call does
not come in the first few days, it is not coming. Move on.
Lie
2 - "I love you"- Too bad this is a common
lie that reduces the value of some precious words. Bj' warning is that when it
is said too soon in a relationship it is often an attempt at controlling the
other person.
Lie
3 - "I'm not married" - The problem is most
men say this and most adult men are married so you do the math. If you have a
gut feeling that you are being lied to about this, ask for his home phone
number and see how he responds.
Lie
4 - "No one understands me like you do" -
This one can be designed to get you to feel sorry for him. You know for certain
that this is just massive manipulation when it is closely followed by a large
request such as borrowing money or asking to move in with you.
Lie
5 - "I'm not seeing anyone else" - Well, maybe. Pay
attention to when and how this information is offered in a relationship. Just
like some of the other lies, offering this information too soon or when it is
not requested is a huge warning sign that someone is trying to pull the wool
over your eyes.
p/s: this are only 5 lies, tapi apple rase ade banyak lagi, betul tak? but, women also lies kan, bagi apple in a relationship, we don't need a lies, or maybe a little sebab it will ruins the relationship, no one wants a lie, in any relationship we need a truth and trust with each other, betul tak? kalau perhubungan itu berdasarkan pembohongan, tak mungkin akan bahagia, bagi apple its ok if my partner lie to me tapi apple takan benarkan partner apple tipu diri dia sendiri..korang, kalau korang tipu pasangan korang, maybe akan dimaafkan tapi kalau tipu diri sendiri, korang jugak yang akan terluka nanti...apple sangat sayangkan seseorg, dan ini datang dari hati apple tau, tapi...eh, ta payah la cerita pasal apple. That's all for today :)
salam :)
